This quote is from Victor Frankl, "Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms - to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way."  This quote explains exactly what has to happen inside of a leaders head.  They must choose the attitude at any given point.  Bad things will happen to people on their way to success, but no one can give you a bad attitude.  A bad attitude is self inflicted and Laurie and I choose to have a good attitude.  Show me a winner and I will show you someone who has learned to control their attitude. God Bless you on your journey.