Orrin, It is so uncanny how information comes to us as we seek it. I have been praying for self-discipline and the ability to "conquer myself", and as I read yesterdays post I was taken aback. We may somewhere in the back of our minds know some of this information, but "knock knock, are you paying attention and really learning anything", is sometimes missing. But opening up your article today, I am just downright astounded. I have printed both articles and plan to read them everyday for the next month. I cannot thank you enough for the the influence you and Laurie (and the whole TEAM) have had in my life and many, many others. Prayers are indeed answered and I am grateful for your insight, direction and dedication. God bless you and yours, Alice