On what Matt said, Didn't you ever read that trashing someone else doesn't make you better. Dexter Yager may not have always said what you wanted to hear when he spoke it, but it usually meant you were not ready to hear it, you had not grown enough. It's like being taught by Prof's who are PHD grads, they talk at a level so high we have trouble understanding them. I know Dexter doesn't need my help, but he made a business work for lots of people and helped many people. I dont think there is one tape from Dexter that doesnt have atleast one nugget that could be used to produce a better me. Sincerely, Dave in FL