I have not even made it all of the way through teh main article, let alone the comments, but this quote hit me so hard that I felt I had to comment on it and then when I am able to come back and finish the article perhaps have more to say. He said under the idea of confronting reality, "Outside of building relationships, communicating, character, leading, and learning I am proud to admit that I am basically useless. I might be average in other areas, but people don’t want average." What A list! I was telling my wife as I sat here reading that, that if I could say that I was not useless in those areas he mentioned I would feel a sense of accomplishment in my life like I have never felt. I'm getting there, and it takes time, but that is a list of things I would proud to not be useless at. Being even moderately good at those things means you can literally put your hand to anything and receive a measure of success. Looking forward to reading the rest of this later...