Orrin, I can't help but comment on this. My husband Paul A. Staples (like the store)LOL is a great leader to our family. Since this man was 5 he has shown great leadership. At 5 he lost his father and being the oldest of 4 he became the man of the house. Again at 10yrs old he lost his mother and two siblings in a car accident which he and another brother survived. Then living with his grandparents he saw his grandmother pass. At 16 I met up with him. I never would have guessed he was 16 he had a car, job and a home. Never would have guessed he was a victim. He always leads, TEAM for us is about the cause, Paul and I are working hard to become Leaders for the TEAM. We have raised three girls in this culture whom we are very proud of. They made it and so did we. I can't imagine what we could have done if TEAM was in our lives in the 70s & 80s. Thats the past we are going forward. I have always felt in my heart and soul this mans story should be told, now I know it will!! He is a high "D" need I say more. Orrin you and Laurie have made a difference in our lives along with great mentors like Steve and Beth Morgan, Dennis and Sheila Morgan' Bill and Jackie Kirt and Cassie, the Rodosa's and of course all our leaders on CD. I recently was able to say hello to your wonderful wife and met you at a small meeting here in MI. I think Laurie is the best and someday we will spend time together that is my first goal and dream. Then Paul can retire from the business. Learning not to be a victim is the best lesson Paul has no idea the HERO he really is!! Peace and Grace, Julie